Christmas, while often filled with joy, can also be a deeply emotional season when someone special is no longer with us. For many of the families we’ve supported, gathering with others who truly understand can bring comfort, connection and a sense of peace. We hope our Light up a Life Service of Remembrance provides them with the opportunity to experience that. 

Tree of Light lit upWe are once again delighted to be able to offer two services. The first will be held at the Hospice on Sunday 29 November at 4:30pm, the second will be held at Richmond and Hillcroft Adult Community College in Richmond at 2pm on Friday 4 December. 

During both services, Steve Nolan, Bereavement, Spiritual Care and Counselling Lead, will lead us in a programme of traditional carols and meaningful readings as we come together to remember, reflect on, and celebrate the lives of those who are no longer with us.

If you would like to attend either service  please let us know. We have limited capacity at both events, so please consider registering early.

There is also a Community Light up a Life service on Tuesday 15 December at All Saints Church in Kingston, there is no need to register to attend this service.

Mike’s story

When Ania was told her treatment was no longer working, her family faced the unimaginable. With three young children, she and her husband Mike turned to Princess Alice Hospice for support.

“The nurses were brilliant, just fantastic,” Mike recalls. “They were Ania’s first point of call… those points of contact were just unbelievable.” The Hospice team supported Ania at home, managing her care and helping Mike through the practical and emotional challenges. “It’s very difficult being the carer,” he says. “They took the burden off me so I could be a husband.”

As Ania’s condition worsened, the Hospice helped make it possible for her to die at home, surrounded by her family. “It was the best thing… we were all there together,” Mike says.

After Ania’s death, support continued through bereavement groups for both Mike and the children. “There’s a feeling you’re not alone,” he reflects. For his children, being with others who understand “has been a huge part of the grieving process.”

“Three years on, they’re still there for us,” Mike says. “I couldn’t speak highly enough of the help we’ve had.”